too many assumption~

i remembered last time i accompanied my cousin, yati to meet his "blind date". im quiet worried about her safety..there are too many cases about girls being cheated, raped and many more through online dating..so that's why i followed her eventhough im not interested on it..i asked her how does he looks like?? how old is he?? is he really nice?? and many more questions..suprised! she said that her "onlinemate" didnt put any picture of him..from that answer i made assumption that he is not a good looking; dark, thin, pimples etc...because if he put his picture, he must not asshamed by his look..doesnt matter he's handsome or not..or maybe he is an old man..that's why he didnt put even one picture..or fat..or short..or..too many assumptions that i made..because of why? because that's the reality nowadays..after a half an hour we waited, (now i assumed that guy is not punctual and selfish person! 30 minutes is a long time to wait..) he called yati and asked her to meet him at somewhere..without me! owh now he's a shy person (another assumption!) well..i just let her go..just make sure the place they meet is crowded..and i dont like to wait for another 30 minutes..just a few minutes, then my cousin came back to me..she said "alright, let's go home!" huhh?? just like that?? what a very short date u had cuzzy~ she said that guy is just okay..some my assumptions might correct and some are not..